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Question by Ashley: ok what do you do about your husband and his family still in contact with his ex’s??
this is not a jealousy think whatsoever, more of a disrespect and inapporpriate. so me and my husband have been together for 4 years, 5 in february. we have a 3 year old and one on the way. he loves me, i love him. we live a state away from all the family and drama. i am SOOOO sick of his family it’s not funny!!! and his uncle, who has been married to a woman is the same way. It’s like we’re outsiders!!! sooo to make a long story short. My husband’s ex, who cheated on him, 3 years before we met, is still in the picture!! I mean I think his family buys her birthday, and christmas gifts, and they don’t buy me gifts?? She has a 5 year old, and when my husband and i first started dating they would joke about how much this little girl looks like him. like it was funny to me?? her name is erica, and my husbands name is eric. Name suggestions for our girls?? Erica!!! When she had a problem with her Heating and Air, which my husband used to do, they gave her his number to call
him, like what in the hell is he going to do?? he is another state away, call someone local. When we first started dating there was an incident when she showed up drunk with her friends at his door crying to him that she wanted him back!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i know she is still clinging on to that hope. If we are in town. She’ll come over to MIL house and sit there and talk about lunch plans with my MIL. On her myspace there is a picture of my husbands g-ma with her daughter saying, “what would we do without grams” Lately she has been emailing my husband on myspace, just to shoot the shit with him, like talking about her career, and she heard we were having another one. I just don’t get it?? they dated for like 4 years. I feel like being the “psycho” girl and emailing her and telling her i don’t appreciate her contacting my husband, and to lay off. He doesn’t respond, and he doesn’t like his family talking to her. But she doesn’t give up trying, and it’s ANNOYING!!!! What to do?
both my husband and i have voiced how we feel about the situation, numerous times, sepereately. like i was just on the phone talking to his mom about it the other day, and she LAUGHED! seriously, she was laughing. she said she could see where i was coming from, but that mabye she’s the kind of person that likes to keep in contact with people she knows. o and his cousin and I, we are pretty close. for years, she called her nonstop, infrequently, well his cousin wouldnt answer or return calls, so this ex frickin wrote her a letter!!! saying i don’t know what i ever did to you!?!? blah i could go on alllllll day!!!
OK let me clarify!!! her daughter is not his.
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Answer by *MegheN*
What a weiner!
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She can create alot of problems … you need to seriously talk to your hubby.. He can tell her off
I think you need to stop having kids with this guy.
Sorry to put it that way, but c’mon — obviously, he has close ties with his family, who has been disrespecting you. Even worse he apparently has not stepped in to put an end to this.
And worst of all – he apparently likes to get single women pregnant.
Dump him and make a good home for your kids. They deserve a bit more stability.
Like, oh my god , that is so not right. Not a jealously thing, like, ok, yeah right. I would be, like, so jealous, like I would throw up.
I would, like go shopping, until it would hurt.
What is really sad about this is that both your husband and his family are very disrespectful to you. They are treating his ex better then they treat you and that’s not right.
Your husband should stand up to his family and stop communicating with his ex.
I don’t know, if it were me….I simply would not put up with this. I would move on from all of them!
Take your husband to task. Tell him off that you are pissed by his actions and constant pandering to her needs. You are the legal wife now so stake your claim. As for the family, when the time is right and you have to burst out on them, do so too! You are not to be bullied into someone else’s shadows!
Poor you.jesus get your husband to tell her get lost and speak to his family
Your husbands family is no doubt being very disrespectful towards not just you but your husband! I dont blame you for feeling bitter. But theirs not alot you can do about it, so I recomend that you blow it off, you have your husband, she doesnt, he loves you & is commited to you so that should be the only thing that matters. Just look at the positve & not the negative, you have alot to be grateful for, so enjoy what you have & let his outside family remain on the outside & dont let them & their bad manners rain on your parade.
If both you and your husband feel this way, why is he giving her his number and shooting the shit with her on myspace? Maybe the two of you just need to stop all contact with his family if they keep throwing her in your face.